The feminine isn’t just a grammatical form: it’s also something built in relationships, in sisterhood.
If I have to think about who to thank today, my thoughts turn to the women around me.
To my longtime friends, with whom I’ve shared years of hardship and success. And to those I’ve met more recently in my work and activism, with whom I’ve built important bonds even in a short time.
Knowing they’re there, that I can talk to them in times of difficulty, share ideas, ask for advice, or simply share a doubt, makes a real difference. They are concrete points of reference.
It hasn’t always been, and it isn’t always, easy. There have been some disappointments or difficulties over time, as in all relationships.
The data on gender equality are absolutely not what we would like.
We are living in a period marked by aggression, violence, and tremendous conflicts.
Precisely for this reason, I believe it’s important to recognize the value of relationships, alliances, and teamwork. Even in activism, we should value not only individual paths, but the ability to support one another and work together.
The image accompanying these reflections reminds us that femininity isn’t something that “just exists.” It’s also something that is built, in culture and relationships. Even through sisterhood.
I say this also to dispel a persistent stereotype: that women don’t support one another and are often rivals. My experience tells us something that can be different.
Thanks to my friends, for being there.
